A 23-year-old girl is currently in a relationship with her boyfriend, who is a year younger than she is.
She's been dating her boyfriend for approximately one month, and he already insists that he loves her.
She's gorgeous, she's smart, and she says that she's completely out of her boyfriend's league, though she is struggling with insecurities.
Every single time she's out with her boyfriend, if another girl hits on him, she gets incredibly anxious about it.
"Why is this?" she wondered. "He’s handsome for sure but he’s made comments like he couldn’t believe he was on a date with a girl like me when we first met. Things like that."
"Last weekend we went to the bar and a drunk girl tried flirting with him when I went to the bathroom which upset me even though he basically got her to go away."
"I’m genuinely concerned for myself because I get annoyed by anything of that sort because it messes with my head."
Her boyfriend has only shown her that he's loyal and trustworthy, but it's not enough to shake her insecurities.
She does question if her boyfriend would leave her for another girl, even though she admits that's pretty far from healthy.
She wants to make a conscious effort to do something before this impacts her relationship in a negative way.
This evening, she's going to be out on the town with her boyfriend, and she's positive that some girl is going to try something with him.
In preparation, she wants to do everything in her power to ensure that she handles other girls hitting on her boyfriend in a good way, but she's doubting her ability to do so.
"I am a highly anxious person if you can’t tell," she said. "So I overthink the heck out of everything."
"Haven’t been in a relationship for 2.5 years so I’m relearning how to do this again and he’s been patient with me as I have with him."
"But I don’t want to put myself down over little things either. Men don’t like when you’re weak or insecure. I don’t either. I’m pretty confident usually so I’m surprised when I get angry about other women."
Do you have any advice for how she can not let other girls admiring her boyfriend bother her?
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