*This is a work of nonfiction based on actual events told to me by the woman who experienced them firsthand. Used with permission.
A 30-year-old woman told me:
I am 30 years old this year. I have been married to my husband for two years. For the past two years, the relationship between the two of us has always been very good, and we have never quarreled. However, in the second year of our marriage, After I opened a flower shop, our relationship changed.
The funds of my flower shop are all my own, and I did not ask my husband to give me money. Although my husband said he wanted to give me money, he didn't want me to work so hard. But I am an independent person, and I don't want others to say that I am a woman raised by my husband, so even if he gives it to me, I don't want it.
When the flower shop first opened, there were no people, and the business was not very good. After a year of precipitation, more and more people came to the store. Many guests are introduced by husbands and friends. Slowly the business got better and better, and I couldn't be too busy myself, so I could only hire people.
Then a man came from my store to come for an interview. I thought it was strange that a boy likes to come to work in a flower shop. Since he wanted to come, then I hired him. I am really happy when someone is willing to come to work.
Since I have employees, my work has not been so busy.
Later, I had an affair with that employee in my shop. He is humorous and handsome. And he will coax me. He often praises me for being beautiful. But it was very strange that he didn't say a word when facing a strange girl.
But when facing me, he talked a lot. I can't help but ask him why. He said he only likes me. After I listened to what he said, I couldn't express what feelings in my heart. I feel very happy.
Since I had an extramarital affair with him, I am happy in my heart, but I also regret it. I regret not being able to control it. What's happy is that a man loves me so much. I wanted to break with him, but I couldn't bear it, so I was struggling.
Every time I see his smile, I feel that my spring is here, but when I get home, I regret it. Every time I go home, I am cautious, afraid that my husband will find out.
In this way, I stayed with my lover for three months, I thought it would go on like this, anyway, I enjoy this kind of life. This is the life my husband can't give me, but the good times don't last long. He resigned with me, and he said his parents wanted him to go back and get married. When I heard him say that he was going to get married, I felt quite uncomfortable, but I still allowed him to go back.
Since he went back, I was very unhappy and depressed. I couldn't take any interest in anything. Until one day my husband saw that I was in a bad mood and asked me what was wrong. I told my husband that it was okay. My husband said to me: "You are in a bad mood because your lover left."
When I heard my husband say this, I looked at him in surprise, I didn't expect him to know everything about me and my lover. Before I could say anything, my husband filed for a divorce. He didn't give me any chance to explain. I regret it in my heart, but what's the use of regret? My husband won't forgive me, and we won't be able to go back.
My view:
You shouldn't do something sorry for your husband at any time. Don't think he won't find out it.