An interview of a man:
I am a train driver, and I spend more than ten days on the train every month. During the four years of marrying my wife, I sometimes feel that I owe my wife. Therefore, when I am not working, I will do more housework, especially cooking.
My income is above the middle level in our local area and I love my job.
My wife works in a private company. She is my remarried wife. My wife died of illness when I was 38 years old, and my current wife is ten years younger than me.
My ex-wife and I have a son. After I married my current wife, the son lived with my parents. My current wife and I currently have no children.
Maybe my "business trip" has become commonplace, so my current wife has gradually adapted to it.
However, some time ago, because my colleague had something to do, he changed shifts with me, so I went home early. To my disappointment, when I got home, I saw the figure of a strange man.
I don't know why. I didn't get angry with my wife at first when I was angry but took a photo.
Later, the wife's defense was: he was her distant relative.
Me: "I never heard that you still have such a distant relative. Would you like to call your parents to verify it now?"
The wife finally told the truth: They were lovers and they met through online chat.
Under these circumstances, I didn't want to make a big noise. After ordering him to get out of my house, I said to my current wife: Think about when to take your things out of the house.
My wife: I know I was wrong. I hope you can forgive me this time. I will never do it again.
Me: Sorry, I am a person with zero tolerance for extramarital affairs. Of course, you can continue to pester me, but I can also sue for divorce and take the photo I took today.
In the end, the current wife agreed to go out of the house.
My view:
To say a joke: He is a waste of talent for not being a detective.
The divorce is the responsibility of his current wife.
The reason he can say divorce freely:
There are no children between them.
He couldn't accept the matter of extramarital affairs.
After all these years of marriage, his current wife probably didn't play the role of a stepmother. Otherwise, his child will not live with his parents.
Personality, I think it is a very important factor. Some people are rich and are reluctant to spend money with their lovers, which is useless. Some people are young and beautiful, but they are not loyal to marriage, which is useless.
Now that the divorce is decided, follow the corresponding procedures to complete the divorce procedures as soon as possible.
People should try their best to follow the rules. Otherwise, they will do things that hurt others, and they will not be loved by others.